Presented by Bethlehem Family ServicesOver 20 Years of Clinical Excellence

The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work

Transform your communication, deepen your connection, and build a marriage that lasts — from anywhere. Join our official, research-backed Gottman workshop series delivered live online via Zoom.

Research-Backed Veteran-Owned Live Online via Zoom Private Exercises Educational — Not Therapy
Sound Familiar?

Every Relationship Reaches a Crossroads

These challenges are not signs of failure — they're signs that your relationship is ready for the next level. The question isn't whether you'll face these moments, but how you'll navigate them together.

Repetitive Arguments

The same fights keep coming back, no matter how many times you try to resolve them.

Emotional Distance

You're in the same room but feel miles apart — like roommates instead of partners.

Miscommunication

Conversations turn into misunderstandings, and small issues escalate quickly.

Premarital Uncertainty

You're engaged or planning a future together but want to start on the right foundation.

Deployment & Service Stress

Military life — separations, relocations, reintegration — puts unique pressure on your bond.

Work-Life Pressure

Career demands, finances, and family obligations leave no room for each other.

Lost Connection

The spark that brought you together feels like it's fading — and you want it back.

Parenting Tensions

Raising children together brings joy but also disagreements on how to navigate it all.

Important Distinction

This Is a Workshop — Not Therapy

Many couples avoid getting help because of the stigma around "therapy" or "counseling." This workshop is different. It's a psychoeducational, skills-based class — not clinical group therapy. All exercises are completed privately with your partner.

What Makes This Different

Psychoeducational, skills-based relationship program

Based on Dr. John Gottman's 40+ years of peer-reviewed research

No public sharing of personal information — ever

All exercises completed privately between you and your partner

Structured, practical, and educational environment

No clinical records created — no diagnoses made

The Framework

The Seven Principles That Transform Relationships

Based on Dr. John Gottman's landmark research studying thousands of couples, these seven principles are the foundation of every thriving relationship.

Workshop 1: Building Friendship & Emotional Connection

Principles 1–3

1

Enhance Love Maps

Develop a deep understanding of your partner's inner world — their dreams, worries, joys, and history.

Know your partner better than anyone else in the world

2

Nurture Fondness & Admiration

Strengthen the foundation of respect and affection that fuels lasting love.

Rebuild appreciation and counteract contempt

3

Turn Toward Instead of Away

Learn to recognize and respond to your partner's everyday bids for emotional connection.

Build trust through small, consistent moments

Workshop 2: Managing Conflict & Creating Shared Meaning

Principles 4–7

4

Let Your Partner Influence You

Embrace shared decision-making and honor your partner's perspectives and feelings.

Create a true partnership built on mutual respect

5

Solve Solvable Problems

Master a proven 5-step approach to address everyday conflicts constructively.

Stop arguments before they escalate

6

Overcome Gridlock

Understand the hidden dreams behind perpetual conflicts and move from deadlock to dialogue.

Break free from recurring, seemingly impossible disagreements

7

Create Shared Meaning

Build a shared sense of purpose, rituals, and legacy as a couple.

Forge a deeper sense of 'we' in your relationship

What You Get

The Complete Seven Principles Couples Package

Every couple receives the official Gottman Institute materials package. Designed specifically for hands-on exercises during the event and continued growth at home.

Official Gottman Couples Kit Box Set✦ Included with Registration
Official Gottman Institute Kit

Everything Included in Your Materials Box

Two Detailed Couples Guides

Personalized spiral-bound workbooks for each partner packed with private exercises and questionnaires.

Bestselling Gottman Book

One copy of 'The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work' by Dr. John M. Gottman, Ph.D. for lifelong reference.

Love Maps & Open-Ended Questions Card Decks

Two interactive Gottman card decks designed to spark fun, deeper, and meaningful conversations.

Official Gottman Box Set & Complete Workshop Tools

All premium materials in an elegant collector box — 100% yours to keep and practice together for years to come.

Yours to keep forever. These materials remain your lifelong reference toolkit for navigating challenges, strengthening fondness, and building shared dreams.
Workshop facilitator — Bethlehem Family Services
Your Facilitator

Led by Experience You Can Trust

Led by a licensed clinical professional who is also an ordained minister, bringing over 20 years of unique, faith-integrated relation framework to your workshop experience. Our approach is grounded in research and shaped by real-world experience serving military families, first responders, and our Central Florida community.

Veteran-Owned Organization
Licensed Clinical Professional
Ordained Minister
20+ Years of Clinical Experience
Gottman-Based Methodology
Certified Relationship Educator
"Every couple deserves the tools to build a relationship that thrives — not just survives."
Common Questions

Frequently Asked Questions

Everything you need to know about the Seven Principles Workshop. Can't find your answer? Call us at 1-800-215-9741.

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Your Relationship Deserves This

Don't Wait for a Crisis — Invest in Your Marriage Today

Whether you're building a new foundation, reigniting your connection, or navigating a difficult season — this workshop gives you the tools to move forward together with confidence.

Research-Based Private & Safe Veteran-Owned Not Therapy